Dating a girl with a promiscuous past, trauma is not a life sentence
It's hard to believe that at least 10 people were too stupid to see the error there. A person's past choices greatly influence my opinion of them. In one scenario, I had been seeing the guy for a few weeks and I wasn't really that attracted to him physically he was fine, but he was overly obsessed with dirty jokes and just acted 10 despite being 22but I figured I really wanted to find someone, and I couldn't afford to be picky.
Anyway, things are going well between us but every now and then the thought creeps back into my dating a girl with a promiscuous past and I get sad because I never wanted to think of my future spouse as someone who "got around. You just don't see it.
Knowing this is not a defeat, but a mercy. Maybe when these thoughts start creeping in, just force yourself to think about the good parts of the relationship and how well things are going now.
It actually might suggest infidelity in the future. Link to the previous post.
My friend's mom is pretty stressed by her arranged marriage all these years later, but I don't think she would leave. I mean honestly, how would she feel if you did that?
Otherwise he wouldn't be jealous and envious of her sexual-experience. That should strike you as odd.
Her N is in the 20's. I posted this in a similar thread: Time for some introspection because, believe me, this is about you, not her.
If she acts like this, it's because of this, and you should do this. I've dated 3 of those for extended periods of time. I am not a low confidence twerp.
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Agree with everything you wrote. But why take the chance? The most dating websites that start with b example would be "she wants a guy with a beard but doesn't want to grow a beard herself".
They've never developed those skills because they've never had to. Could you trust a girl who was promiscuous? Now I'm questioning how many of her friends I met were actually flings. It wasn't so much that she had had sex with a lot of guys, it was that I had to see these guys all the time, and she would point them out even.
Brahs.... Dating promiscuous girls?
I don't feel that I've settled at all. What eNotAlone gave you? In fact, she is not the hottest girl ever but I never cared.
I wish I could just forget it and go back to how it was before I knew any of this. Don't have an account?
I forgot im in a sub with people like you. Love will not indulge in paranoia.
That's part of getting to know each other. He has had some jealous moments, but we work through those. A lot of people seem to think that dating preferences ought to be fair or practical.
I was caught off guard and asked for the number of guys shes slept with She said she had a promiscuous past.